Men Who Want More Sex
From the Women in Their Lives

Are you frustrated because you aren’t getting enough sex from the woman in your life?

Do you often feel like nothing you do is right...that no matter what, you can’t please her, which ultimately means, no physical intimacy?

Are you confused by what she means when she says she wants more intimacy, and yet pushes you away when you try to be intimate with her?

As a woman, a therapist, and a wife who has enjoyed marriage for over 20 years, I have some ideas that can help.

Let’s face it.  Men and women have very different ideas about sex and intimacy.  They define sex and intimacy very differently.  They approach sex and intimacy very differently.  As a result, they may often feel very disappointed and unfulfilled in their relationships when it comes to sex and intimacy.  

Couples I work with often talk about their frustrations regarding sex and intimacy. 

For some men, probably most, sex IS intimacy.  For some women, probably most, intimacy CAN lead to sex.  It is no wonder that they are often left confused, frustrated, and sometimes feeling very lonely.  

I really enjoy working with men who are trying to figure out how to get their sex and intimacy needs met in their relationships.  We talk about the “female” perspective of sex vs. intimacy.  We talk about why a woman may push her man away when he is pursuing what he thinks is the intimacy she keeps asking for.  I explore with my male clients the inner workings of the female psyche as it relates to sex and intimacy, helping them understand what she really means when she says they “have no intimacy” and that she “wishes he was more intimate.”

The men I work with learn how they may be getting in their own way in the “sex and intimacy” department.   We examine how he currently communicates his needs and desires and how that might be pushing away the very thing he is trying so hard to get from the woman in his life...connection through sexual intimacy.  I explore with him different ways of communicating intimacy needs so that he can connect in ways that are fulfilling and meaningful to both he and the woman he loves and cares about.  

If you would like figure how to make more meaningful and satisfying connections with the woman in your life, contact me either via email at journeyccs@sbcglobal.net, or via phone at (714) 296-8052.